Sir Vivian
A queer, intimacy focused experience
Find Liberation
in
Surrender
We go through life holding ourselves so tightly and taking ourselves so seriously. All tied up and stuck in the boxes and narratives that we've been told we have to abide by.
I want something better for you. I want you to let it all go and be free. Free to be who you want to be, enjoy the things they said were dirty, find satisfaction and affirmation in who you are and what you like.
Let me be your guide, let me tie you up and put you in my boxes (you'll like them so much better).
I want to share with you all the pain and pleasure, all the joy and play; that follows when you submit.
I'm waiting...
Intrigued?
If you haven't already, come get to know me a little better before reaching out, so that you can be informed and specific while making your inquiry.
Sweet words from some phone subs
"Another Great call with Sir Vivian. Alpha Dom put me in my place."
"What a wonderful call! Lovely voice. Very self-aware, and aware of their place within the power dynamic! Looking forward to further exploration!"
"One of the very best calls I've had on NiteFlirt. Experienced, intelligent, enthusiastic, dominant, and sane."
What we are creating
Through caring negotiations, enthusiastic play, and loving aftercare, I want to create with you a space that is free of judgement and full of pleasure (whatever that looks like for you).
I take pleasure in power exchange, in inflicting pain, in tease, and play. In providing affirmation, in your worship, and your humiliation. I want to develop in you trust and obedience, a willingness to surrender and submit. I want you to feel safe to let go and embrace your desires. Then, together, we can enjoy mutual pleasure and satisfaction (whatever that looks like for us).
From a
Precious Little One
Sir creates a safe space to explore new experiences by being attentive and empathetic while still making clear that they are completely in charge. They strike the perfect balance between power and care, pushing you to your limits while respecting physical and emotional boundaries and still maintaining a strong and commanding presence. They are creative and intuitive at figuring out exciting new ways to make you tick and clearly enjoy their role, staying easily engaged and present. Whether you’re an experienced submissive or new to bdsm, I highly recommend a session.
Ready to reach out?
You may send your email to ~srvivthesecumed@gmail.com~ Please read the following instructions and include all the information required.
Serious inquiries only
(All your information will be handled with the utmost care and discretion)
1. Provide your full name, your height, weight, and city of residence .
2. A general description of your physique and any information that I need to know about body limitations or injuries you may have.
3. Provide a brief summary of kinks and fetishes that are relevant along with any related information or history that is important for me to know. Include a little about your experience in the scene so far.
4. Briefly, explain how you found me, why you were looking, and why you are specifically interested in seeing me.
5. Share the following,
One forefront desire for you right now
One thing you're working on or curious about
The hard limit or trigger that it's most important I know.
6. Finally, based on what you know about me so far, what is the most valuable thing that you believe you will be bringing to this dynamic?
I expect you to sign emails “with respect, your preferred name”.
I'm looking forward to hearing from you!
